Not the ones on your camera or your phone, the photos from your childhood. The ones you swiped from your parents’ albums when they weren’t looking. The ones you brought home after you cleared out the family home. Chances are, they’re sitting on a shelf at the back of a closet. Hopefully they’re not in a box in the basement in the direct path of the next burst pipe or worse. But odds are, wherever they are, they’re not organized.
When I flew back from the U.K. after my Dad’s funeral, I had a suitcase full of photographs. My Dad saved every photo he ever took and often had doubles printed. Each and every one was unlabeled and undated. There were photographs of his parents’ wedding mixed in with snapshots of the bus terminal construction. It took me a few months to get to the place where I could begin to go through them and tackle the mammoth project of pulling out the family photographs and sorting them into chronological order. Once the photos were scanned, I put them online for my siblings to share and then put the originals in albums, which I labeled where I could.
We think we’ll always remember but we don’t. As you take your photos this holiday season, remember to tag them as you import them to your computer. And as you pull out the old albums (best case scenario) or rummage through the boxfuls of photos (more likely scenario) to share the memories with your folks, take the time to jot down on the back of each old photo:
- who is it?
- where is it?
- what was the occasion?
- any dates you all can remember.
If you’re lucky, your family has steel trap minds and can fill in all these details. If memories have faded a bit, capture what’s still there and save what you can to pass on for future generations. Nothing like looking at a photograph of your relatives and realizing that there’s no one alive who knows who any of them are to make you feel totally discombobulated.
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